Can You Help Me? (Record no. 83145)

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020 ## - INTERNATIONAL STANDARD BOOK NUMBER
International Standard Book Number 1855753111
Terms of availability 1184
082 00 - DEWEY DECIMAL CLASSIFICATION NUMBER
Classification number O65.3
Item number B730
100 ## - MAIN ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME
Personal name Brafman, A H
245 ## - TITLE STATEMENT
Title Can You Help Me?
Remainder of title A Guide for Parents
260 ## - PUBLICATION, DISTRIBUTION, ETC.
Place of publication, distribution, etc. London
Name of publisher, distributor, etc. Karnac Books
Date of publication, distribution, etc. 2004
300 ## - PHYSICAL DESCRIPTION
Extent 139p
500 ## - GENERAL NOTE
General note includes index and biblioraphy
505 2# - FORMATTED CONTENTS NOTE
Formatted contents note THE CHILD 1 Early days, early ways Why are routines important for infants? Is it possible to "baby" a child too much? Can affection become a hindrance? Should I let my child make mistakes- and then help pick up the pieces? I`m told I should put myself in my child`s shoes: what does this mean, and how do I do it? How can I listen properly to my child-and hear what he is really saying? How important is "quality time"? How do I foster intimacy without making my child "sit and talk"? When does "making allowances" become "spoiling" or "inappropriate"? How can I discipline my child without using physical punishment? What does physical punishment mean to the child? Is it better to send children to nursery school or to look after them at home? 2 Trying their wings How can I help my child towards becoming independent? 37 When should a child start to be independent? Will what I say or do help my child learn to become his own person? Or will he just see it as meddling? 42 When is a child "too good"? 47 When is a child "too naughty"? 49 How can I tell what is bothering my child? Could it be depression? 51 My daughter beeps biting her nails and hair: how can we get her to stop doing this? 54 My son fiddles with his genitals; I don`t mind this at home, but it`s embarrassing in public: what shall I do? 57 3 Siblings and peers Is rivalry between siblings normal? What if it becomes inappropriate or excessive? How can one be fair to both children? 61 Why does my son bite his big sister, though usually they play happily together? How can I put a stop to it? 63 One child has special needs, the other is "normal": how can parents manage? 65 Do parents have favourites? Why? Is this fair? 68 My child finds it difficult to make friends: can I do anything about this? 70 My child is being bullied: how can I help him? 73 My child has been accused of bullying: what should I do? 75 THE PARENTS 4 Self-esteem, conflict, lifestyle How does parents` self-esteem affect their relationship with their child? 79 My partner and I often argue: what effect will this have on our child? How can parents handle their conflicting ideas about bringing up children? 85 When one parent undermines the authority of the other, what effect does this have? How can this pattern be changed? 88 Why shouldn`t I disparage, belittle, or complain about my spouse (or ex-) to our child? 91 Bad relationships in families can repeat from generation to generation: how can this cycle be broken? 94 What effect does it have on the child if both parents are of the same sex? Guilt, honesty I`m in an egocentric whirl of self-recrimination about how I treat my child: how can I break out of this and focus on my child again? It is normal for parents to feel guilty when their child has a disability: how does this guilt affect the child? Why do parents blame or label their child when he is ill, misbehaves, or fails, rather than dealing with what he is trying to convey? How do you apologize to a child when you are in the wrong? And what if your spouse is in the wrong and refuses to apologize? I don`t like my child`s friends and feel they may be leading him astray: how should I react? My children love to play with me, but eventually I get very bored: is it bad for them if I refuse to play any more? I dislike my child: is this unnatural? 6 Needing help, seeking help How will I know when I need outside help or my child does? My child needs help, but I`m worried- what if he is "labelled"? What should I do? What else might prevent parents from being able to seek help? My child needs help: to whom should I turn? Family? Church? School? Doctor? Psychiatrist? When my child needs outside help or is in trouble, how do 1 deal with the professionals I will have to see?
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Personal name Brafman, A H
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